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The Game Breaks Down

1/5/2026

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The Game Breaks Down
 

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​The Game Breaks Down
oil on Yupo
12 x 19 inches (with a small border for framing)
This item is unmounted and unframed.
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If all those things -- trust, respect, etiquette -- stop functioning, the rules clash and the game breaks down. - Haruki Murakami, Killing Commendatore

​Society depends on a number of thin strands of tenuous agreements. For example, I won't go around killing you and yours, and you won't kill me and mine. I won't steal your stuff and you will leave my stuff alone. People don't walk unannounced into each other's homes, kidnap them, lob grenades over fences, redecorate other people's houses and so forth. Well, generally they don't.
Or at least, in the past, it was a rare occurence.

But the gloves seem to be off in the world. Trust, respect, etiquette have stopped functioning at all in much of the online world and even in real life. I cannot count the number of times my eyebrows have raised at what people do not hesitate to do anymore. Including killing humans in boats and kidnapping leaders of other countries. 

So to begin this year I am imagining a world where trust, respect, etiquette are cool again. Where we look upon each other with compassion and curiosity, seeking connection and cooperation instead of annihilation.

And with that thought, a couple of unluckly passengers in the pea green boat working together to cross the stormy seas. 
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About the art: beginning with a piece of gesso'd Yupo, I created a mask in the shape of the critters and boat and painted around them with a thin layer of background paint. I use the mask technique when my hands feel uncoordinated (hello, arthritis!) and I want to be sure to get the composition and placement just right.  Once the initial background layer was dry, I worked exclusively on the characters first, building the layers and details from the heads and faces outward. Then the sail and moon, then the boat.  While those layers dried, more pinks and plums in the sky and movement in the sea. A final layer of detail on the characters and the boat, and one more layer on the background. After a couple weeks of thorough drying, a final layer of varnish over the whole shebang to really make the colors pop. 

The Question Exchange with the amazing Dotty Seiter continues!

Here is my question number three for Dotty, and her gobsmackingly gorgeous response: 

Main Course - if creating was a main course (a sandwich, even!), what would it be and why?



piatto principale

the main course of creating,
according to my poet/artist 

friend's way of thinking,
is not a particular meal or dish but, 
instead,
an actual course--
a flow, 

a pathway, 
a series of illuminating
moments, 

an alchemy, 
a transcendence,
a transformation, 
a lived experience highly
sensory and immediate,
a space outside of time and place,

a threshold consciousness
with which she becomes one,
inhabiting it as it inhabits her,
animated by

generative energy 
and invigorating tension
that resolve at the intersection
of process and product

no matter the process,
no matter the product.

in other words, 
not beef wellington,
not quiche lorraine, 

not shrimp diavolo,
but a life force

that sustains her from the outside in 
and the inside out. 

buon appetito!

--dotty seiter





​And here is Dotty's third question for me,
along with my response in art:


What can you tell me about painting from feeling?
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For this one, an image says it pretty well!
​ A leap off a cliff, a trust fall, but I do it gleefully. 



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While Dotty and I continue our Question Exchange over the coming weeks, a new winner and a new exchange will begin! Congratulations to Diana D. - you're the winner of the December Reader Giveaway! Huzzah! Send a message to me at [email protected] and let me know what method of exchange works best for you. I am looking forward to it!

Many thanks to all who have read, viewed and listened to the Question Exchanges over the last couple of months. Upon reflection, I am certain I personally feel enriched beyond expectation by the entire process!  Anyone who is interested in participating in a future exchange please reach out to me at [email protected] and I'll gladly leap into it with you!

For now, blog comments will be just that - comments! Thank you for them! Your readership and participation make this whole blog space sparkly and so very rewarding! xo
10 Comments
Dotty Seiter
1/4/2026 04:34:45 pm

Oh my gosh, Lola. HOW can this pea green boat series have SO many spectacular iterations?! This one is visually riveting. And it brings tears to my eyes—I am feeling deep grief today for the parts of life on earth in which trust, respect, and etiquette have not only been in absentia but also replaced by extreme distrust, disrespect, and impropriety. Your painting offers a poignant reminder that we are all in this boat together, and it reminds me to turn my attention to where my feet are planted, here and now, and then to notice, and notice, and notice, without judgment. I am reminded to shine with curiosity, pick up a piece of litter when I see it, offer a hug, seek joy, share joy. Joy: watching the Wolf Moon rise over the Atlantic with several family members (three rolicking generations) as we celebrated what we call Thanksmas! More joy: riding in the pea green boat on the seas of a rolicking question exchange with you!

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lola
1/5/2026 02:08:07 pm

Dotty!!! Yes, yes and YES! Thanksmas! Wolf Moon and rolicking! Thank you so much for your words, which let me know the piece is successful, the pea green boat series has conveyed its intended message, and this artist can relax and be present in this one deeply meaningful moment of connection. Thank you, friend! xoxo

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Carl Stoveland
1/5/2026 09:46:12 am

The artwork is sublime, funny and on point. The poetic and art responses knock my socks off. The idea that your work is the byproduct of a life lived gloriously, full throttle with possibility around each corner. Just fantastic.

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lola
1/5/2026 02:10:00 pm

Carl!! Thank you very much! I am grinning at your comments, and also at how the energy which began with Trina T's suggestion and fueled and expanded by our meaningful and effortless question exchange has leaped onto and off of the page with poetry and art! Holy wowzers! xoxoxo

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Thea link
1/5/2026 06:51:12 pm

Lola, the altar you made this week is simply sensational. What a lucky person, whoever bought that.
It has so much motion in this intentionally still, contemplative object. I love that contrast. It holds the tension of the opposites and in doing so, made a new sacred space.
xo T

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lola
1/6/2026 03:20:10 pm

Thea!!! Thanks so much for your feedback on the altar - it really felt like something special as I was creating it (as did your octopus altar!). I'll be expoloring more of these in the coming year. Contemplative objects matter, as you so expertly know! I am delighted that this one hit in the right spot for that. xoxo

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Trina Tarlton
1/5/2026 10:32:48 pm

Wowza! When I grow all the way up I want to speak as eloquently as Dottie! Kudos to you both💞

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lola
1/6/2026 03:21:37 pm

Trina!!! Isn't Dotty's poetry just sublime? I keep nudging her to publish a book - everything she posts just makes me giddy with the experience of it! xoxo

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Carol Edan link
1/7/2026 02:50:46 am

Yes, we are all in the boat together! Love how the elephant is putting his hand towards the donkey, letting him know that all will be well! Wishing you all a creative, healthy and Happy New Year!

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lola
1/7/2026 03:52:16 pm

Carol!!! It is lovely to see you pop up in the comments here - you've been on my mind! Happy, creative and healthy New Year to you as well! xoxoxo

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