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Our Friendship Is Quite Unique

11/24/2025

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Our Friendship Is Quite Unique


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Our Friendship Is Quite Unique
oil on canvas paper
11 x 17 inches
This item is unmounted and unframed
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We take it in turns to play 'attack', 
While the other rolls onto their back.
To him I've the strength of a flea, 
But I'm sure he'd never hurt me.
No harm comes from tooth or beak, 
Our friendship is quite unique.
We're a shining example of how kin, 
May each wear a very different skin. - from Two Unlikely Friends by STEPHEN KATONA
More travellers in the SS Malarkey sailing across the Sea of Shenanigans as I spend this month exploring the theme of the beautiful pea-green boat.

As the poem says, we may each wear a very different skin​ and yet we are still in the same boat, on the same sea, in the same world.  There was a heart-melting story of this very thing on the Oregon coast last week.

A juvenile humpback whale was beached in a tangle of crab pot line. Humans gathered in droves in the dark, the cold, the waves and the sand and pushed, pulled, comforted, and encouraged the whale. All night, all the next day, and more nights and days following. They did not hesitate to risk their own comfort and safety to help this beings who was so different from themselves. 
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Veterinarians administered vitamins, hydration and valium to support the whale. Experts and volunteers worked together in a herculean effort to save it, with the whale blowing and making sounds throughout.  With each report and video, I cried. I admit to being teary as I write these words.

The people's heroic efforts ultimately failed to save the giant, and local tribes appeared on site afterward to reverently handle the remains. I like to think those final days for the whale were as good as they could have been, in the hands of loving, determined and compassionate humans. And for me personally, this story of helping someone who wears a very different skin  touched me to the core. 

About the art: beginning with a piece of canvas paper gesso'd in white, I sketched the figure outline roughly with a brush laden with thinned oil paint. Working outside-in first, adding a first layer of background paint and using it to refine the sketch. Then the faces of our star duo, followed by the boat. Coming back in for the bodies. A long drying time. Repeating the outside-in and inside-out building of layers, darkening the darks, making the shadows more moody, then the highlights on bodies and heads. This pair makes me smile BIG! That talon of the eagle resting on the pooch's behind - affection or instinctive grasping? A reminder they are friends, but also predator and prey.

The November Reader Giveaway is in full swing! Leave a comment on any blog post this month to be automatically entered to win a Question Exchange between thee and me!

Last month's winner was artist/photographer/teacher/podcaster and blogger
​ Carl Stoveland, and we had a blast diving into some deep questions.  Here is Part One of our hour-long conversation. Parts Two-Five will be posted over the next couple of weeks.  Take a look! And I would love to hear your feedback.
​Leave a comment below!



​The once-a-year
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murder-your-darlings sale
ends Saturday, November 29th!

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(and thanks hugely to all who have already rescued art
​ from the gesso monster! I am so delighted!)
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6 Comments
Dotty Seiter
11/23/2025 05:57:10 pm

Lola, the beautiful pea-green boat is so thoroughly unabashedly just exactly precisely that: a BEAUTIFUL PEA-GREEN BOAT. Love this series. Love that the SS Malarkey is making repeat runs across the Sea of Shenanigans. I am mesmerized and magnetically curious about all the supporting bits here—the water, the sky, the light, the shadows, the atmosphere. Sail on!

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lola
11/24/2025 03:00:48 pm

Dotty!!! Oh YAY! Thank you for loving this series! That means very much to my artist's heart. :) More to come!

As for the supporting bits, what I am thoroughly enjoying about this series is being details with the characters and their vessel, and then letting the paint dictate what goes on around them. Playing with diagonal flows, random color blocks ad moving one paint color into another while wet. It floats my boat! ha ha!

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Carl Stoveland link
11/24/2025 10:03:24 am

I love the painting and the quote that goes with it. I wish the story you related had a happier ending for the whale. I’m glad the local tribe could be there to do their part.
I hope others enjoy the video! I had a great time. It was great to spend that time talking with you. I look forward to whoever the lucky winner is next month!

Carl

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lola
11/24/2025 03:03:57 pm

Carl!!! Thank you for loving the painting and the quote! We were all hoping for a better outcome, but the veterinarians were candid about what happens when a whale is beached - the incredible pressure on their insides without the boyancy of the water, excessive heat build up and so on. Which makes the story more touching - the volunteers knew their efforts were a hail mary pass, unluckly to succeed. And yet they were there. The video of them in the dark in the crashing waves with the whale makes me cry - so heroic and compassionate.

And thank YOU for your enthusiasm, earnestness and vulnerability during our question exchange! I am moved beyond words!

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Thea
11/24/2025 01:49:01 pm

Loved the conversation. The part on being bullied and standing up to that jack ass was so important for me to hear Carl. Go Carl! Kickin butt and taking names!
I was bullied too so I totally get it and admire you. Thank you both for speaking so much truth and being role models for us.

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lola
11/24/2025 03:06:06 pm

Thea!!! Thank you for sharing your own history of being bullied. There are so many of us who are silent on the topic. And thank you for resonating with Carl's experience. I was so impressed to hear a man speak openly about this subject - that kind of vulnerability is quite rare and wonderful. It was a wonderful interview experience. xo

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