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30 Paintings in 30 Days - Day 18

1/18/2017

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"Spring" first in a series of four, acrylic on aquabord, 6" x 6".  Ready to frame, or can be leaned on a shelf.  Available on etsy.


Am I not sensitive,
Clever,
Well-mannered,
Considerate,
Passionate,
Charming,
As kind as I'm handsome
And heir to a throne?
        From "Agony", Into the Woods

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I don't know what the lay of the land is in your house, dear reader, but in my studio there is usually a wild rumpus, a fray, a melee, a brawl, a rumble and a monkey-pile going on.  No matter how much I shout "order!  order in the studio!" the creatures and characters have minds of their own and seem to forget the rules of polite cohabitation.  Perhaps it's time to bring Cinderella's Prince over so he can teach them a little something about manners.

But outside the studio, my sisters and I have often been called "the polite family".  It's comical how far we will go to make sure everyone is happy and no one's feathers are ruffled.  Just deciding where to go for the day can be a mega-negotiation, with each of us ready to fall on our swords to make sure the others get what they want.  Husbands and boyfriends and visitors might raise an eyebrow at our antics, but somehow it has worked for us, so we keep on.

I was delighted to come across this article on how to be polite.  The author goes perhaps quite a bit further than my own family (for example, I might not bother to learn what the rules of etiquette are with prostitutes.  Not that I wouldn't want to be polite with a prostitute, just that I don't tend to run in the same circle of friends.  Of course, I've now become worried that I might have offended a prostitute or two, so please accept my apologies and perhaps we could have tea sometime), but I love the pure intention of mastering manners at the level of an art form.  And I learned something from reading this - how to really connect and engage with someone during fluffy social banter with one sentence.  And how to take connecting at social events to a competitive level in order to perhaps overcome some of my own introversion.

So as we continue this journey into the woods, I am going to work on perfecting my social manners just as suggested in the article.  I am wondering what the troll will say when he's talking about his line of work, and I respond with "wow.  That sounds hard".  

This piece is the first in a new series - "The Four Seasons."  One set of these has already been completed and sold as a private commission.  I liked them so well, I started another set!  Though I will post them one by one, let me know if you're interested in the four pieces as a set and I will bundle them on etsy, just for you!​

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​Today's "Pay What You Can" piece is "La la Camel", pen and ink on paper, 6" x 12".   This piece will be shipped flat.  Shipping is anticipated to be around $6.


Email me at imajenation@gmail.com with how much (or how little) you'd like to pay for this cutie (shipping will be added).  The winner will be selected at random and notified via email in 24 hours.
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Patricia L. Brooks
1/18/2017 03:31:24 pm

"Spring" makes a L💓VELY impression on the weather it represents 💓💓💓👍👍👍‼️‼️‼️Ah, to be POLITE.... Paul Ford has learned his lessons well🤗‼️‼️‼️My siblings and I were the recipient of our mother's SUPERBE skills in being polite in ANY situation (stemmed from going to an all girls college with the STRICTEST of rules in being polite)‼️Much like you, JEN, I am a naturally introverted personality; however, the lessons of being polite have assisted me in traversing MOST situations🤗🤗🤗‼️‼️‼️Where I differ, with Paul, is in the realm of providing feedback, compliments and support.... In years past I have held back from providing those three components and suffered the consequences - even to the extent that someone I admired, trusted and loved past away without hearing my REAL thoughts. Never, again‼️There is no price associated with RECEIVING my feedback, compliments or support👍👍👍‼️‼️‼️It is given FREELY and with enthusiasm because I can🤗🤗🤗👍👍👍‼️‼️‼️However, if someone felt the need to ask me to STOP, I would, of course, POLITELY and QUIETLY support their wishes👍👍👍‼️‼️‼️BTW, good for you and your sisters to try and make everyone feel comfortable‼️‼️‼️Your parents raised TERRIFIC children👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🤗🤗🤗‼️‼️‼️

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jen
1/18/2017 06:26:30 pm

Oh Pat! Let us all learn from your experience - to always give compliments, support and feedback!!! (which you DO, every day, to the delight of all of us in the art community!) I will learn from your example, so there are never any regrets.

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Carol Edan link
1/19/2017 02:32:54 am

Thanks for the link, enjoyed the article. I also grew up with politeness taught, so I get ruffled when it's not reciprocal. Sabras ( Israeli born) are not the most polite, but I hope I raised mine to be, Love the textures and how they are so inviting to enter the magical forest.

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jen
1/19/2017 06:44:30 am

My pleasure, Carol! I am also ruffled by unreciprocated good manners. And you taught me a new word - "Sabras"! Thank you!!!

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