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Simply Understanding

9/18/2023

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Simply Understanding
"Simply Understanding" - oil on Yupo, 19.5 x 24.5.  Available here, at Artfinder and at Bluethumb.


​What’s one area of your life that you keep trying to “solve” instead of simply understanding? This doesn’t have to necessarily be a relationship either. People try to “solve” their health problems with fad diets, when often they first need to develop an awareness of the emotions that enable the problems in the first place. 

In my own life, I’ve often tried to “solve” my creativity by over-planning books and projects, when really I just needed to sit down and create and understand what I was feeling. - MARK MANSON
Here in the studio,  the love affair with pink continues.  This time bouncing off the pink in an abstractscape form.
And Manson's words arrived in my in-box right on time - I am a "solver" - I throw my efforts at solving things before I even truly understand them.  In my creative life, yes, but also in my regular life and in relationships.  Trying to solve something feels active, empowered, strong.  Trying to sit with it and feel it feels risky, vulnerable, exposed, naked.

Manson encourages us to listen to others more instead of attempting to provide solutions, but also (and more importantly) to listen to ourselves.  To not fix, to not push away, to just feel it and understand why it is there in the first place.

And so I practice this in the paint, hoping it will ooze out into the rest of my world. 

How about you, dear reader?  Are you a solver?  Or do you sit with and understand things? Leave a comment below.  One lucky reader will win a small original piece of art, just for being vulnerable.  Yay!
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Simply Understanding

About the art - beginning with white, white WHITE Yupo and a colored pencil.  Lightly sketching some large shapes.  Blending neutrals for sky and foreground and loosely adding them with an extra large rubber wedge.  Moving the liquin-thinned paint on the Yupo is gloriously tactile and creates lovely textures.  Adding pinks, then adding color to the pinks to create hot and cool zones.  Using a small brush and some dark darks with restraint.  Gamsol-thinned dripping paint added as a final touch.  This piece feels like candy.  Yum.
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Dotty Seiter link
9/18/2023 04:01:28 pm

Um, were you within earshot of my nephew, his wife, and me as we hiked Rafe's Chasm and Ravenswood yesterday, each of us sharing introspection, exploration, vulnerability, and insights with tender open-hearted for-examples about what it means to feel our feelings, to be still enough to listen without fixing or solving? WHOA.

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lola
9/19/2023 02:14:39 pm

DOTTY!!!! OMG the goosebumps I am feeling right now! WHOA!

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Carl Stoveland link
9/18/2023 04:19:53 pm

Hmmmm. Interesting. I may be both. I’ll have to sit with this a while. My painting has a plan sort of a pre-fixing. Those guardrails help me to be completely lost in my process and tuned into what’s happening on my canvas. So I categorize myself as a fix so I can flow kind of person. No overthinking just enough to get the ball rolling. There are many ways in as long as in the end you find your creativity which for me are deep quiet waters that is my creative peacefulness.

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lola
9/19/2023 02:15:31 pm

Carl!!!! You always strike me as so well balanced in all things. In this case, using the guardrails to fix and flow....dang! That's GREAT!

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Carol Edan link
9/20/2023 03:07:22 am

Lots of tension and movement! Yes, listening to our hearts and feelings will often help the issues solve themselves. In my creative work, I often have to let things sit. Less chance of over thinking.

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lola
9/20/2023 02:19:27 pm

Carol!!!! Listening helps solve - omg I am going to write that down. YES! Thank you! xo

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9/25/2023 06:55:52 am

This is a really interesting and informative post.
Thanks

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Gail Lynch Paljug link
9/28/2023 02:24:42 am

I always considered myself a great listener. But, I’m also a fixer! So, am I to understand that I can’t be both?! 😬😅😅

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lola
9/28/2023 03:11:45 pm

Gail! Sounds like you have the perfect balance - an ability to both listen and solve, without one interfering with the other. That's absolutely splendid! xo

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